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Speaking Point: (speaking points)
Don’t bring date around your kids until you’re exclusively dating and don’t exclusively date until you’ve brought them around your best friends who can see past your blind spots.
Once in an exclusive relationship, consider deeply your children’s opinion of your partner. Often we are unconscious to old sabotaging patterns and attract a new flavor of your old Ex.
Tell the truth when dating: are you looking to remarry, looking for life companionship, looking for a casual partner for sex, social events, travel. Don’t play games or waste their time or yours.
If you mess up, apologize immediately. I’m sorry, it was my fault. How do I make it right?
This should not need to be said, but have safe sex. Both parties carry condoms and use them. Period.
Women decid Speaking Point: Additional Free Coaching: Complementary Chapter 1 of How To Be And Stay Sexy. Go to www.HowToBeAndStaySexy.com Speaking Point: Single Dad’s Go on a Dating diet for one month: Be clear you’re a great, valuable noble man from the inside out. Then don’t look to her to make you look good, feel young, or avoid the fact that you’re getting older and have accomplished your goals yet. Do your inner work until you are at peace with your accomplishments or lack thereof, and no longer look to a woman, cars or bank accounts to be enough. Speaking Point: Additional Free Coaching: Complementary Report called Get Her To Say Yes. Go to www.GetHerToSayYes.com Speaking Point: Single Moms: Go on a Dating diet for one month: Be clear you’re amazing on your OWN first. Then don’t look to him to save you, make you feel safe or pay your bills. Do your inner work until you know you are a capable, intelligent woman who finds safety and confidence from inside your heart, not from a man.
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