Speaking Point: Yes, you are the wife or girlfriend and you are sensational, or he wouldn't be with you... yet here are three reasons why your man having strong platonic friendships makes him an even better partner.
Speaking Point: 1. Pressure: Assuming ONE woman (YOU) is going to meet every need of your man, this is tremendous pressure on you and honestly sets you up to fail! I say give you a break and he spend time with his female friends or sister to get the information or experience he needs to accomplish his desires... he will come home his fullest and most confident self. He may even turn you on or move you to tears as you see a part of him you've never noticed before...
Speaking Point: 2. Hearing Impairment: Many men have this secret shut off value from hearing advice from their wives or girlfriends. He KNOWS she's right yet WON'T change, as if it's an admittance of defeat or embarrassment to his Kingdom. Let sis tell him straight up and he'll make the shifts with ease. Like a Wing Girl, making everyone's life more harmonious.
Speaking Point: 3. Flavors: My male clients tell me they love all flavors of the feminine. Sexy, soft, straight up, sophisticated, silly, sensual... and encouraging healthy platonic relationships with women allow him to adore the female species and get his 'fill' without suppressing this desire... which might back fire as an affair.
Speaking Point: 4. Trust: If you're a woman who encourages his healthy female relationships, at some point you may bump up against jealousy, not enoughness, competition... this is a great opportunity to do YOUR inner work, heal the abandoned parts of you, celebrate your time alone to nourish you, and deepen trust for your man and intimate connection when he returns. Bottom line is that Good Men Use Freedom Well. You are the key, the invitation, the catalyst to him LIVING this, and showering YOU will his devotion.